How to Write the Perfect Best Man’s Speech
Date 09.10.2023
In addition to organizing a bachelor party a best man’s speech is one of Best Man's Duties and your time to bring laughter, warmth, and genuine celebration to the wedding. Here’s a no-nonsense, easy-to-follow guide to help you write and deliver a speech everyone will love.
Speech Structure
- Introduction
- Introduce yourself and your relationship to the groom.
- Break the ice with a quick joke or friendly opening line.
- Thank the hosts and the guests for being part of the big day.
- Stories & Anecdotes
- Share light, funny, or heartfelt stories about the groom.
- Mention how the groom met the bride and why the couple “click.”
- Keep it inclusive—avoid private, embarrassing, or inside jokes.
- Balance Humor & Heart
- A little gentle roasting is fine, but mix in genuine praise.
- Highlight why the groom will make a great husband and friend.
- The Toast
- Finish with a meaningful and optimistic toast to the couple.
- Keep the ending direct—wish them happiness and a great future.
Pro Tips for a Great Delivery
- Stick to 5–7 minutes; short and lively beats long and rambling.
- Practice reading out loud—ideally in front of a friend or the mirror.
- Speak clearly, make eye contact, and smile throughout.
- Keep humor friendly—never inappropriate or likely to offend.
- Personalize your speech with specific memories, not generalities.
Sample Introduction Lines
- “Hi, I’m [Your Name], and I’ve been [groom’s name]’s partner-in-crime for over [number] years.”
- “For those who haven’t had the pleasure yet, I’m the best man—think of me as the responsible one.”
- “It’s an honor to celebrate [groom] and [bride]. I’ve seen [groom] in many situations, but nothing’s topped today.”
Checklist Before You Deliver
- Cut long thank-yous and get to your first story early.
- Run your speech by a friend or family member if you’re unsure.
- Enjoy yourself—it’s your moment too!
Example Toast
“Let’s raise a glass to [groom] and [bride]: may your love grow stronger with every year, and may your adventures together be just beginning!”